I consider myself somewhere midway on the spectrum—not overly negative and certainly not a walking ray of sunlight.

Although in recent years, I’ve gotten much better at becoming more tolerant, and a bit more positive than I ever used to be.

But here’s the bee in my bonnet, the bile that makes me gag—people who are overly positive ALL THE TIME.

I mean, c’mon, all the time? Really? Who can sustain that level of grandeur and glory?

No one, that’s who. Every single person on earth knows life can dish out a load of crap and slap you in the face with it. We all have been slapped. Of course, you can choose the high road and put a positive spin on the crap that’s dealt. Most times that’s what we strive to do, and should do. But sometimes in our darkest, loneliest, hurting hours the high road is extremely hard to find. And often completely out of reach. That’s when excessive positivity makes me gag.

It’s okay to be positive. To choose positivity. To not give in to your storms. I agree, and believe in all that—faithfully.  I preach it often on this blog. But let’s get real about what’s real. Sometimes we ain’t feelin’ it. Sometimes no amount of positive words, deeds, or affirmations can jolt us out of our funk. The funk is relentless and raw. Determined to run its course.

Definitely, positive words and empowered phrases can feed a starving heart and heal a wounded soul. But sometimes it’s not words we’re wanting. Most times we just want the load of crap to just stop.
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Go away.

So we can breathe, live, laugh again.

Sometimes there are no words. Sometimes it has to just run its course.

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