You know how you get a quarterly or yearly performance review on the job? Where your boss assesses your performance, behavior and accomplishments to determine what you’re good at and what needs improvement. I’m sure it’s safe to say that most people hate this process. It sucks! But it has to be done.
Well the same thing goes for life. We need to assess our performance, behavior, and accomplishments in life in order to get to where we’re going. You have to determine what you do well, how you’ve grown, what you’ve accomplished, and how to align your behavior in order to get your results.
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I’m in an assessment mode. Looking at things from all angles trying to see what needs tweaking, stretched, enhanced, removed, or destroyed. There’s a change in direction I need to make in my career, parental changes in how I relate to my kids, relational changes for my marriage, friendship changes, financial changes, and healthy-living changes. I want to applaud myself for what’s working well, improve upon what’s not, and remove all the toxic waste that’s holding me back.
I do this more than once a year, but not quarterly. Just whenever I feel like a heavy weight is bogging me down and making it harder for me to move. When every step I take seems an uphill battle. That sucks! So for my own sanity I have to reassess things and see how I can change or lighten my life’s load. I hope you’re reassessing and lightening your load, too, so you can move better through life.
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Good to hear from you D! I have been so out of it since the move. Boy, reassessment takes a lot of courage. You have to part of yourself in “neutral” and be willing to let go of things- letting go can be really hard. Especially when we are charging ahead. I am so bad about being in “go gear” that I have to be slapped around a few times ( by failure, difficulty, etc…) to look at / be willing to change. But especially with our kids- this is so important because what works when they are in elementary school often no longer works in middle school, etc…
Remember- you are in a very very busy, demanding time of a woman’s life. There is no tougher time, I think… balancing the kids, a marriage, time for yourself and time for work. I remember what a hard time it was for me. I look at pictures of myself from back then, five- ten years ago or so…- and I see it there. In my face… Looking back- it seems even harder now than it did at the time. I don’t think I did what you are saying: restrategizing.
Reassess, and keep moving on my friend.
I am applauding you! I admire you so much!!!xxoo S
It is funny you brought this up. That is exactly what I am doing with my life. I know sometimes my life is so full being a single mother. I feel like I am spread so thin. It seems I am always trying to find ways to tweak my life. But lightening my load does not seem possible right now. Somedays are so over whelming that it effects my attitude. But with each day I try to climb over that uphill battle.
Susan I too have to be slapped around by failure, difficulty, etc. in order to make changes. But I think that’s human nature. Sometimes (thank God)I can adapt to things without being slapped around first. It’s all part of the process in life.
Sharon, I struggle daily to not let situations affect my attitude. But like you said it gets overwhelming sometimes and my attitude is the first to go. It’s good to know you’re in the process of tweaking. Tweak on my friend.
I reassess, but don’t make all the necessary changes. Gotta work on that.
I hear ya, Starla. Sometimes ALL the necessary changes aren’t easy to do. But as long as we make some changes then we can feel like some progress was made.