The Disconnected Dance

Okay, here’s the thing. I know when I’m out of line. I know when I’ve said one too many things or have stepped over the boundaries—most times. But then there are those times when you get that look. That— “I can’t believe she said that”— look. Or that awkward silence after you speak.

It’s the silence that makes you rush to replay your last sentence in your head. Hoping to find the flaw that caused the silence or the look. But to you, there is no flaw. To you, what you said was perfectly fine. To you, all is well and right with the world. Therefore, the awkwardness is their problem not yours. Right?   

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How tiresome it is. Especially if you’ve been dancing all day long. By the end of the day, all the bobbing and weaving leaves me emotionally spent. So I steal some quiet time to myself to recuperate. To get ready for tomorrow’s dance. What about you? Do you ever get tired of dancing?

4 thoughts on “The Disconnected Dance

  1. Well I too, like you my friend am an introvert, and maybe that’s partly why….”avoiding the dance”.

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